| How do you deal with.... ...a pass from someone from your own gender?
While I'm not familiar with non-Western cultures which are famous - or infamous - for their anti-gay stances, particularly in their religions, I'm sure most people here have either known someone or have themselves been hit on by someone of their own sex/gender.
I know I have, more when I was younger than now but it's happened, and my reaction has varied from "Eww gross! I could never..." to "Hey, at least someone finds me attractive even though same sex experiences are not my particular cup of tea." Sometimes it is still off-putting, and sometimes it's a bit flattering.
Has this ever happened to you? How do you react? It doesn't matter if you're a male or female, but do you get angry and want to react violently? Do you get scared? Do you take it as a compliment? Does the other person's attractiveness have anything to do with your reaction?
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