is there anyone here who are still in love with their ex girl or boyfriend while in a relationship? if so, who would you choose?

I've always said that exes are exes for a reason, and going back will usually bring up the same problems again that broke you up in the first place. If you are happy in your current relationship and in love, then why go back to the past? If you are not happy then it is not fair at all to person you are with now.

You are talking about past relationship and present ones, right. Personally I don’t think of it as a problem because the reason they are your ex is that you aren’t compatible for each other.

The think is that not all exes are in the past because of the relationship. Some couple split up because of circumstance beyond their control: famly pressures, careers, misunderstandings. If these things can be cleared up and you haven't made a commitment to your present partner see how your exe feels. Maybe you can patch things up.

This is true as well. I think it really all depends on how/why the relationship ended, and what your true feelings are. Good luck though, and keep us updated.

Honestly, for the first couple of months with my present boy friend, I did compare him to my ex all the time, some times in my head and some times even on his face. But as I grew fonder of him, my ex just disappeared from the scenario.