Me and my boyfriend were together for sometime and we split for a few week and when we did i met someone else , he just messed me about so me and my ex decided to get back together now ive found out that im 13weeks pregnant and hes really upset that it might not be his...he says he loves me to bits and doesnt want us to end but hes upset about this baby, can any one give me any advice?

I know that women bond with their babies but in this case, the first question to ask is do YOU want the baby? I don't care what your boyfriend thinks. It's about you. If you want the baby and can nurture and support the child until adulthood, keep the baby.

If you don't want the baby, carry it full term and give the baby up for adoption. There are lots of loving families that cannot have babies and one would probably love your child if that's the route you want to take.

If your boyfriend loves you, he will stand by you. If it makes him or you feel any better, have him take a paternity test. Otherwise, if you two decide to get married, he could always adopt the baby.

Having a baby is a blessing. Now, if your boyfriend will not accept it, whether it is his or not, then you should not be upset about it. I know it is hard not to have a father of your child but you can raise and give your child the best way you can without the help of your boyfriend. but then if he really loves you, he will accept it and take responsibilities for you and your child. good luck.

Did you want advice on how to handle your boyfriend? Unfortunately there is no real answer here except to do your best from now on to be honest with him. The first priority is to take care of yourself and your baby. Good Luck!

How old are you? Can you have the baby? Do you want to? It is important to know if you'll have your lover by your side to support you or not before you answer these but if you really want this baby, don't let your bf stop you.