I really need help. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 3 years now, He is in the army so i dont see him alot. He used to be crazy in love with me, used to tell me he loves me all the time, we broke up twice and there has been one night stands with other people in between for both of us. He went away with the army for 5 months and i found out i was pregnant he was over the moon. But when he came back he had a month off, the first 2 weeks home he was normal, all cuddley with me but then he started acting strange, saying he needed time with his friends, i got a bit funny with this as we usually do things together with his friends, he is because i cant do much where im pregnant? Then he is saying he wants a lads holiday, He broke up with me and told me that he dosnt want to be with me no more as im always accusing him of cheating and i text him all the time, but the excuse would change every time. I was heart broken and kept texting him, he then said we will take things slow. He likes to go out alot drinking. He never texts me to tell me he loves me anymore. he dosnt really want to spend time with me. Then i suddenly got a text saying im really starting to miss you now and an i love you. Im confused! Has my hormones been getting to him? He needs to understand he has a baby on the way. I love him so much and i dont want to lose him, i have told him this many times but he just tells me to stop saying things like that. I really need help.

Well you a real dicey situation.If I was in your place I would try to be strong and ask the boy what I really wants, is he ready to take up the responsibility.If I still smell something fishy I will readily dump him and move ahead.

It sounds like you two need to grow up and get some help with deciding what kind of future you want for yourselves and the baby. Once a baby is in the picture, that little person takes priority. Best of luck to you. It's time to think abot your child and what you want.

Maybe you bring pregnant is making him go "Woah, wait what?" and he couldbe confused. Listen to the advice above though; that's what I was going to say.

If he keeps this up, tell what you just told us straight to his face and let him know you're sick of his games.

I think he loves you. But the question here seems like can you handle his this kind of love? I think not! So ditch the a**hole and move on.

For now just focus on your baby, stop worrying so much if he really love you or not. You should have a happy disposition in life so that your baby would be healthy. Maybe he really needs some time to think of the situation he just splurge in. If he does not come back just be it, just think of the best gift he gave you, your baby.