Sometimes emotions take control of the driving wheel,but it is very important that you don't work out on a problem when you are cross or upset,not in proper state of mind.It is better to take a break and return to it a little later. How many of you follow this?This is the quality that my partner has in him and I envy him as to how he manages his wrath so well and makes me also think rationally in the most tender situations.

Maybe take a cup of tea. I do that when I know I’m so burnt out with the household chores, the nanny is still on vacation and would still be back the next day and all sort of stress busting things that one could think of. Sipping a hot cup of tea, while having time to relax not minding your children if they’re bullying each other or not. Just relax as if you’re the only one in the room.

I like your style and attitude and I realize it is missing in me.I do try to overcome my short comings but you see promises are made to be broken every time.

There will always be disagreements, even between the best of partners. Take one day and have a discussion. Agree to make it OK to disagree. This is what makes us individuals. Agree, that not agreeing on something doesn't mean you love your partner any less, only that you have a different opinion. Learn to compromise, with a clear head and a cup of tea.