What is the trait of the person, that comes in contact with you, attracts you the most.It is the mannerism of the person that impress me in first go.:

Honestly it's a man's shoes that catches my eyes first. I might be a weirdo but if the man has nice shoes than I'll look up. But if he doesn't well...I'm going to keep on looking. Shoes can just tell a lot about a man.

For me it’s the eyes and the nails. I want a talking eye, clean finger nails with short nails of course. I want him to be simple and clean.

For a woman, for me, it would have to be the way they dress. Call me whatever, its just, if a girl walks around in a tracksuite with earings bigger than your fist, I tend to stear clear. If they are dressed in shiny black coats with pitch black hair and spikey metal boots, I'll stear clear. Other than that, also, if they smoke, I wont even look. I had a GF once that smoked and I wont make that mistake again.

It is true that for men shoes will tell almost every thing about a man.I also do give heed to foot ware the men wear.

I'd have to say intelligence turns me on almost instantaneously. The over all smartness of the person and his/her knowledge impresses me the moment I enter into a conversation.

confidence and the way a guy carries himself. that's important being comfortable in the skin your in.

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I love a woman's eyes and smile the most. Sure, if she's got a great body and nice legs I like those, too, but I once fell for a girl just based on her winning smile.

Intelligence is also a must. You don't need a Ph.D or even a college degree to impress me, but you do need brains, wit, and some general knowledge so we can have interesting conversations. To me, it's not just about the sex or love stuff!

What attracts me is a combination of smarts and well-groomed looks. When I see that a person, be that a man or a woman, takes good care of how they look, it tells me a lot about them. However, if clothes and fashion is all they can talk about, I lose interest in a minute.

Exactly. Having you know... an annoying boyfriend who whines or talks about sports non-stop and has an ego bigger than the Wall of China, I tend to just roll my eyes and get on with my life.

The guys eyes.

I love frank and simplistic people. Those dumb ass who shows off their smartness are the most idiotic people on this planet.

I like to hang out with friendly people. Those high attitude dumbass guys are just not the right guys to hang out with!